When I was younger, my father taught me to look a person in the eye when shaking hands and to always give a firm grip. He taught me this so that whether I later became the President or a plumber, an introvert or extrovert, I’d always have an invaluable communication tool. A handshake is a man’s go-to method for demonstrating that he is strong and confident. If you give someone a proper handshake, neither your area code nor occupation will matter. It will demand for you a certain level of respect. Most dating and relationship advice for men is trash. All of it can usually be boiled down to buy better clothes, get abs or act cocky. I’d never say that being cocky, ripped or well-dressed won’t help you attract women, but for men who actually want to learn — not change — such cliché solutions are rarely the answers to their issues. If you are one of those guys — the ones who need to learn how to interact, not just change their appearance — your point of failure has likely not been what you thought it was. More likely, it’s that you don’t have a clue about how to communicate with women. And, I say communicate because whether or not you want to take her to dinner, bed or church, getting the point across can seem like an insurmountable feat. Unlike most of the tips out there that are misogynistic, I’m offering some straightforward advice regarding how to better communicate with women. And, in doing so, I won’t ask you to change. The following has nothing to do with throwing away your cargo shorts, getting a new gym membership or awkwardly transitioning into a tough-love kind of guy. Just like knowing how to give someone a true handshake — one that demonstrates you are a strong and confident man — the following are communication rules for you to internalize, and hopefully, they will increase your success with women:
When I was younger, my father taught me to look a person in the eye when shaking hands and to always give a firm grip. He taught me this so that whether I later became the President or a plumber, an introvert or extrovert, I’d always have an invaluable communication tool. A handshake is a man’s go-to method for demonstrating that he is strong and confident. If you give someone a proper handshake, neither your area code nor occupation will matter. It will demand for you a certain level of respect. Most dating and relationship advice for men is trash. All of it can usually be boiled down to buy better clothes, get abs or act cocky. I’d never say that being cocky, ripped or well-dressed won’t help you attract women, but for men who actually want to learn — not change — such cliché solutions are rarely the answers to their issues. If you are one of those guys — the ones who need to learn how to interact, not just change their appearance — your point of failure has likely not been what you thought it was. More likely, it’s that you don’t have a clue about how to communicate with women. And, I say communicate because whether or not you want to take her to dinner, bed or church, getting the point across can seem like an insurmountable feat. Unlike most of the tips out there that are misogynistic, I’m offering some straightforward advice regarding how to better communicate with women. And, in doing so, I won’t ask you to change. The following has nothing to do with throwing away your cargo shorts, getting a new gym membership or awkwardly transitioning into a tough-love kind of guy. Just like knowing how to give someone a true handshake — one that demonstrates you are a strong and confident man — the following are communication rules for you to internalize, and hopefully, they will increase your success with women:
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